We have all read the the Bible verse in Ephesians 6:1 - 4, that children should obey their parents etc. Many times we parents demand respect from our children and over look verse 4 which clearly states we should not annoy our children. Children are a gift from God and we parents have been instructed to raise them up in the Lord and to provide for all their basic needs. I myself have been guilty of annoying my children many times. The thrill I got from play fighting with them was unexplainable. But looking back now it’s not Biblical and Christian-like to be aggressive and expect the Holy Spirit to dwell within us and at home. Furthermore even though it’s all playful this behaviour changes the dynamics of the home and unknowingly could be affecting other people’s mental health and well being. As the scriptures say’s we need to be gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent. I pray that we all find the balance on how to deal with out children and how to be patient with them just like Jesus Christ was patient and long suffering towards us. I truly believe that’s why God blessed us with children so that we can understand the bigger picture.
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